External validation

As a human, when we are constantly being criticised, we will have the tendency in seeking external validation. A third party opinion. To validate ourself whether we are that bad.

Sometimes someone cheat not because they are a cheater but they are needed validation which they didn’t get from their immediate partner or when their partner keep making them feel low or less valuable.

My recent relationship opened my eye into this new perspective. How intriguing.

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