With technologies, communication supposes to be simpler.
What happen in reality, especially between a man and a woman, it eventually becomes a basis to conclude assumptions. Or better we call it ‘Fact-based assumptions’.
My conversation with S found that in those days, when the mode of communication was limited. We draw assumptions based on our own perception.
Nowadays, let’s take an example Whatsapp..
I texted him at 10am..
11am no reply
12 noon no reply
1 noon still nothing
2 noon I checked his last seen status at shortly before 2 noon..
So why hasn’t he reply? If he could be online shortly before 2 noon, which means he has seen and read my message.
Hence, the assumptions that I will be making would be purely based on the above situation.
another situation we discussed,
I texted him at 10am
11 am quiet
12 noon nothing
So I log in Facebook and he just liked a picture and commented on a status.
If he was busy, how could he has time for all these nonsense, yet put me in the waiting list to be responded.
You, me and technologies.